By Bob Deakin Photographs by Joseph Dolen Christmas Eve is the time to see your people. The little things don’t matter on this day, the well-being of your family and friends is all that does. When I was 18, I had a car, job, and felt like an adult. All the family traditions were in place, and I wasn't going to miss that, but I felt a new calling. I worked at the former Chuck’s Steak House in Danbury, CT, and there were a few people who either worked there or came in that we